This may seem like a simple no brainer question but it a two part labia spreader. Keep in mind that women love to bitch and complain about how there are no good guys out there, also the fact that given the chance they will bring up all the bad things about dating before the good. The fact that she’s at that moment single on a date with you means it probably hasn’t gone well in the past. In all my first dates asking this question I’m amazed that not one time have I gotten a response like, “CA guys are great, smart, funny have big dicks” Nothing positive. It’s always the guys are jerks, play games, immature, too career driven, whatever. It’s not that you really care but if you listen close enough she’ll basically tell you a list of traits the guys that have dicked her over have. If she say’s something like, “most of the guys she’s dated are needy and insecure or too clingy” this lets you know to be the opposite and be a detached alpha. If she says that, most of the guys she’s dated are “ too macho, arrogant and full of themselves” this allows you to fall back, try not to brag about your accomplishments as much and even show a more feminine side.

The point is to use this information to appear “different” from all the other guys she’s dated. Nothing turns a girl on more than dating a type of guy thats new or she thinks she’s never dated before. Even if you are like all the other guys she’s dated you can front on till you beat then after that be yourself aka the game move known as the “Switcheroo” or “the personality yoink”. Now if she wasn’t raised in a barn she will ask you the same question In return out of politeness. This is the second part. It’s not your turn to list the traits of all the stuck up bitches that have fucked you over. Guys complaining about other women on dates give off the possible serial killer probable date rape vibe. This is how you answer this question.

“I’ve been really lucky, I’ve met a lot of cool, interesting and smart women. I’m even friends with some of them still. But I’ve heard some horror stories from my friends, it seems that a lot of girls out there like to play games or are just crazy” This answer again does two things. It makes you appear to date a lot of hot cool chicks while giving off the impression that some of them were good enough to keep around and still are. This will bring up the competition juice in your date to check herself and see if she measures up to the women of your pass. You bring in the comment about your friend though as a way of letting her know all the undesirable traits you don’t expect her to have. Flaking on dates, returning texts in an unreasonable amount of time, playing games… whatever you can think of. I’ve actually asked this question and been able to change my behavior on a dime that lead me to bang on the first date that night. You will learn from upcoming post that one of the most important skill to have in game is the ability to adapt to your date and the environment you’re in. Don’t memorize the line I just used word for word, learn the theory behind it. Happy hunting gentlemen

Spot-on. BUT just as a note. If a girl is cool (sometimes we exist aight?) than even if she fucking loves all of her exes she won’t say so. The game works both ways my friend - we *know* we can complain until end times about the way our exes acted and you won’t care, because it makes *you* feel superior, and especially with men like you, VK… we know what you like, baby ;) Fact of the matter (as demonstrated above) is that for women in New York, jealousy is the difference between marriage and hook-up material. It’s an offshoot of confidence. If you have confidence, you have the ability to really determine what makes ppl (notably, women) tick and use that. If not, then good luck and godspeed and get tested for STDs.